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My baybay (Taken with instagram)
- 24th April
2012 - 24
- 11th January
2012 - 11
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Win Some;Lose some
A lot has happened recently and I’m happy with all the changes that have been made. School is going great, el trabajo is working out, and the love life has never been better. My boyfriend and I are the happiest anyone could think of. The best part of this is that we both know that we are save, that we are faithful, that we are 100% devoted to each other. He is by far the most important person in my life. He is everything and more. However, as the saying goes you can’t have it all. I pretty much lost a good friend and I do miss her and sometimes want to call her and see if she is ok, but I don’t. I’m either too busy, too tired, or simply don’t call. I guess you win some and lose others, I am just happy I have my boyfriends unconditional love that her absence is not felt nor affecting me. :)
- 16th September
2011 - 16
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Everytime I watch “A Walk To Remember”
- 16th September
2011 - 16
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Everytime I watch “A Walk To Remember”
- 16th September
2011 - 16
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Everytime I watch “A Walk To Remember”
- 16th September
2011 - 16
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Everytime I watch “A Walk To Remember”
- 29th August
2011 - 29
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Childhood.
- 25th August
2011 - 25
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What if
What if I would have stopped you? What if I would have faught for you? What if I would have gave up everything for you? What if I could have seen how much I needed you before I lost you? I torment myself with these questions (knowing that the answer won’t change anything) daily. Why? I guess I don’t even know why. All I know is that what ifs don’t change anything for the better they drag you down and slow you down. What if I could just leave you in the past where you belong? What if you would stop dragging me down? I suppose my what ifs are a never ending cycle. I’ll never know, because what’s ifs have no meaning anyways, and I think I am finally ok with not knowing. <3
- 20th August
2011 - 20
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- 7th August
2011 - 07
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Respect a Lady.
Treat her like you would want a man to treat your sister, In other words, treat her as a person, not an object. Really treat her like a princess and always try and give her comments that make her feel good rather than put her down
Listen to her opinions or ideas. Appreciate her as she is and never underestimate her intelligence. Treat her as an equal. Call her in advance to make plans to go out and never assume that she doesn’t have anything better already scheduled..
Listen to her and respond in a non-condescending manner. Be there for her if she’s crying or upset by holding her. compliment her…if you think she is beautiful say it! “beautiful” is so much more respectful than “hot”. Love and learn to appreciate her for who she is, as well as her body type. Don’t try and change her physically, just love her natural beauty.
Hold hands with her on the street…don’t be ashamed to be romantic and when you meet up with your friends, introduce her. Don’t ever cheat on her…talk things through.Be a gentleman! Look out for her feelings, accept her values/morals, be interested in her life, ask her what’s going on, be helpful, never put her down, if she’s wrong don’t go out of your way to prove her. Be nice and treat her like she is special. Don’t push her to do things she is not ready for. Treat her with respect and pay attention to the small things.
(Source: trungphan, via gavemealadyboner)
- 7th August
2011 - 07
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The Love Cleanse
That was something I came across last year while surfing the web. It was such an interesting concept and something I’m going to give a try.
Let me explain to you what this is all about. Basically a person is supposed to swear off guys for a whole month…no texting, no going on dates, no hooking up. During these 30 days, the main priority is to focus on yourself. The name practically says it all…you’re cleansing yourself from all the bad experiences, hearbreaks, worthless guys. Often times we put others as our number one priority when in reality we should always be our number one priority. Why should you not give yourself 30 days of your 365.
So much time and energy I have wasted on meaningless relationships that don’t get anywhere. I put in the effort into something that’s not worth it and at the end of the day I still end up alone.
The Love Cleanse is kind of tough…how many times do I text a guy just simply because I’m bored or whatnot but now that I’m not worrying about that nor wasting my time texting back I have more time to figure myself out, do something productive with my life.
One of the things that stuck out to me about the Love Cleanse is the Rubberband Effect it creates, meaning that when a person is aloof to others they tend to want/chase that person even more. That sense of confidence and independence is empowering, and guys dig that; therefore, the temptation might be hard to handle but I like to think of this as a challenge…a challenge I will surpass and if I do end up meeting a guy during this month, then he is just going to have to work that much harder for my attention and wait for me until my guyless month is over.
- 5th August
2011 - 05
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- 30th July
2011 - 30
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It was stupid of me to fall for him. It was ridiculous of me to actually think that something might happen between us. A waste of my time and energy. Now I realized my mistake, and I’m going to fix it. I’m going to get over him…I WILL get over him.
The time when I actually like a guy, he doesn’t feel the same way about me…storyofmylife -____-
- 9th July
2011 - 09
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- 8th July
2011 - 08
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Why I never try to fix things while I’m still able to? So accustomed to unstable relationships that I never get too comfortable. And detaching myself has got to be the easiest thing for me to do. I mean no matter the effort I put in this shit, the outcome is never equal. So pardon me if I’m quick to leave and good at actin like we never met. I’m just tryna save myself from another sequel of these unfortunate events.
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